Tuesday, September 22, 2015

The Pursuit of Isness

There are two ways to look at this. There are always two ways to look at everything. If you're indecisive, there might be three ways to look at it, or four or seventeen. But more ways aren't going to help you decide, so there really is no hope for you. And stop interrupting me!

So, there are two ways to look at this. You are here, at this point in life. You are trying to break free and live your life the way you want to. You are tuning in to things you feel are important and giving them the focus they deserve. You are also feeling miserable about turning your back on everything else happening in your life. You feel guilty and you feel scared because if you do screw up, it's all on you. Your screw up and the way it impacts everyone else in your life; it's all... on... you.

Do you feel scared yet? Good. You should. It's better to deal with these things now than to jump in and let the guilt of it all screw up everything you are trying to do.

What did you say? What are the two ways to look at this? I'm getting there. You really need to be more patient.

So yes, there are two ways to look at this. It's all on you. Or it's not.

I know this might be difficult to process. So I'm going to say this slowly. It's... not... all... on... you.

People are responsible for their own lives. They'll figure it out. It's not your burden to bear. It's not your responsibility to sit around and fix everybody's life. You have your own life, and they have no right to make you feel guilty about living it.

But what if... It doesn't matter. Don't swoop in and try to fix everything all the time. Focus on your life and what you need to do. And remember to be nice to yourself. You're stretching yourself out a bit too much and your self-abuse is beginning to show. Your guilt is making you bitter and your misplaced energy is beginning to run out.

You just get this one life. It's never too late. It's never too much. It's never a good idea to make a compromise you live with for the rest of your life. Go out there and do exactly what you want, and as long as you don't wantonly destroy other people's lives, don't apologise for it. Indulge your impulses and revel in them.

Remember when life used to be fun? Yes, I think it's time to bring that back.







Thursday, April 10, 2014

The Great Fantasy Renaissance

This millennium has been far more fantastic than the last one. I’m talking about the Fantasy genre here; in books, movies, games, and other media. Fantasy has crept into other genres like action, comedy, and even romance. Superheroes have never been more popular, each with millions of Facebook fans. Even long dead politicians and religious messiahs are being resurrected to fight vampires and zombies.

                            
    
Our heroes are truly becoming become heroes… axe, baseball bat and all!


What happened and how did this insane glut of the hyper-real and super-normal invade our lives and imaginations? I hereby propose my theory of the Great Fantasy Renaissance.

The Birth
Opinions and accounts vary, but for me, the beginning came at the turn of the millennium with a cult movie directed by the Wachowskis (no longer brothers)… The Matrix. I speak merely of the first movie and not the controversial sequels. Apart from the myriad influences and allusions that made the movie oh-so-profound, what really fascinated people was the concept that reality was negotiable. It could all be a simulation, and anything is possible in a simulation.


If you could see the world, you could reprogram it!

We were awestruck by the possibilities as we watched Neo kick, punch, leap, and fly through the movie, defying physics, belief, and even death. It captured the imagination of the masses, beyond exclusive basements of nerd clubs. It inspired writers, artists, and designers new to sci-fi fantasy to unleash their creativity beyond the constraints of reality. And thus it began!

The Awkward Adolescence
Fantasy was beginning to stir again, it was still mostly for kids (‘childish’ nerds included). One literary phenomenon changed that. Joanne a.k.a J. K. Rowling’s Harry Potter built an everlasting bridge that blurred the boundaries between children’s and adult fiction. Other, less noteworthy but still very successful writers blurred those lines some more and soon enough, it was OK for anyone to read anything.


That’s close to half a billion copies worth of sales right here!

On the movie side, special effects were coming of age, allowing directors to paint greater and more splendid canvases. Peter Jackson showed the world how to make epic fantasy with The Lord of the Rings, designing a world of swords, wizardry, and dragons that one could take seriously. Apart from that series though, movie maturity was still very PG rated, and the first couple of Harry Potter movies proved that. Movies still felt cartoonish, but some series like Spiderman and X-Men still became more popular than superhero movies ever had. DC’s Batman franchise was a joke though (the shameful age of the nippled batsuit) and it looked like the Fantasy renaissance would sputter out before it ever took off.


Why!

But times were a changing, and a new breed of writers and filmmakers were taking a long, hard look at a vision of grown up, serious fantasy.

The Glorious Youth
Much as I hate to admit it, the second author to follow Rowling’s act and make Fantasy even more popular was Stephenie Meyer. Polarising and critically slammed, but undeniably popular and successful, the Twilight series worked in tandem with the Harry Potter movement to spread the word that monsters can be human too. A whole legion of authors rode the wave and found encouraging if not comparable success. The inspirations and trends on the other hand were quite disturbing.


Sparkling vampires… Buff werewolves… Need I say more!

The movies were growing up too. The Prisoner of Azkaban was complex, scary, and a lot better than the first two. Batman grew dark and brooding in Nolan’s series, evolving into an epiphany with Heath Ledger’s Joker in the Dark Knight. The words ‘gritty reboot’ became the mantra for introducing fantasy to a whole new generation of fans. What these movies accomplished was incredible. They humanised fantastic powers and made them relatable. They focused on the logic, science, and history behind these quirks and gave fans a world that felt natural while still being incredibly awesome. Marvel took charge of their movies with their own studio. Iron Man, Captain America, and Thor paved the way for the blockbuster Avengers and their success is proof of how well that worked.


That’s 7 blockbusters in 1… one of them Hulk sized!

The Golden Age of Fantasy

We are truly poised on the verge of a revolution. Fantasy has become the mainstay and, along with its cousin Sci-Fi, it is becoming the foundational premise for non-fantasy stories. Movies like Let the Right One In and Under the Skin actually look at relationships and conflicts; sure the central characters is a vampire or an alien, but that’s incidental. Creative license does allow you to roam free with your setting and characters, and that is exactly what writers, artists, and designers are doing now. They’re having fun letting their characters power up and go wild in a world where anything is possible. The implications and consequences are exhilarating. What is to come in the next few years, will be utterly enchanting and fantastic!

Thursday, March 13, 2014

The Cipher


“I love you,” she said. Her face was damp with tears and the misery made her look ugly and old. She was young and pretty; at least she had been an hour back. When she had believed that I loved her back.

I looked across the café at the barista. She was decorating a cream topped beverage with bright pink sprinkles. The moment warped and grew sparkly as everything became razor sharp but tinged blue, like a great TV screen going bad. I could see the sprinkles reflected in the barista’s eyes.

I turned back to her to see if it changed the way she looked. Her face grimaced with misery as she saw my dead eyes. She could see the effects of the warp, but she couldn’t understand it. No one could.

I looked down at my hands. They were bathed in blue, streaky fire. Little sparks jumped from one finger to another and bounced between my hands. I raised my hands and looked at her. She looked miserable and confused. She was just reacting to my vague gesture. It wasn’t oh-my-god-your-hands-are-on-fire confusion. She couldn’t see it.

“I have to go,” I told her. She let out a sob that quickly plummeted into a wail. My hands flared, covering my arms and then my entire field of vision in a flickering blue hellish haze. It was out of control.

“You can’t leave,” she screamed. “I love you! I cannot live without you! You have to tell me you love me! Say something, damn it!”

With each scream, the blue haze flickered more intensely. I was vaguely aware of everyone in the café looking at us. I didn’t have to look around to know that a portly man in an overly embroidered beige jacket was demolishing the pink-sprinkled, heavily creamed beverage… behind me. I could see the barista frowning at me and I could see her thoughts spilling out of her mind in strange purple words… Jerk! Cheat! Liar!

None of it was true, but it didn’t matter. It was too late for all that.

“Say something,” she shrieked. I felt all the glass in the café tremble a bit. So it really happened, given enough pitch. I raised my hands again and saw that they were now an intense, tightly packed band of blue energy. All it would take is one word. But this time I had waited for too long, let it build too much. I had no idea what would happen. It was time to find out.

“Boo,” I said.
 

 

“We should have got here earlier,” the strangely tall woman said.

The man shook his head, stopping to tap his pipe out over a smoldering trashcan. “He was too old for a cipher, too dangerous. We couldn’t have saved him.”  

“But we could have saved a city block full of norms,” she said, looking at the still smoking pile of rubble and the desperate activity around it.

“It’s alright,” he said, refilling his pipe. “They’re just norms.”

 

Saturday, March 1, 2014

The Dream

The mind is cruel
It toys with you
It makes you think
You think you want
It makes you believe
You believe you need
It makes you dream
But it's all in the mind
It sets you off, chasing mirages
It convinces you that they're yours
Personal, irreplaceable dreams
It leads you on a merry chase
It makes you doubt
It makes you wonder
It makes you bitter
And a bit of a cynic
It might even make you crazy
Till that incredible point in your life
When you actually catch a dream
And hold it, fluttering in your hands
When you look upon it
Willing yourself to believe it's real
When you taste it
And breathe it in
That moment when you realise that
The mind wasn't lying
It was just waiting
For you to grow up
For you to be ready
For you to be wise
For you to get over yourself
And the rest of the world
For you to be willing
And desperate enough
For you to take chances
And get lucky enough
Enough for the dream
Because the dream is real
And it starts now

Thursday, December 19, 2013

The 5 Stages of Brotherhood... and Life!

My best friend and brother-from-another-mother just got married, exactly two months and one day after I did. The entire experience was strangely cathartic and took me down memory lane. It also brought on this slew of long dormant philosophical outpouring. This one though is dedicated to all the bros!

Boys will be boys and girls will grow up into wonderful, complicated women. Boys do grow wise too, but we also manage to stay stupid. We celebrate our victories and failures with delirious mirth and suicidal inebriation. We act grown up, thoughtful, detached, brave, irresponsible, and vulnerable based on the situation's demands. And it is these very patterns of thought and behaviour that brings us bros together, forging friendships that stay strong through the years, enduring far better than obligatory familial ties.

Here, I pick my favourite 5 bro-ments. They might seem stupid and juvenile to the uninitiated, but hey, most bro-haviour does seem stupid and juvenile to the uninitiated!

First Strike - Last Man Standing 

It's one of those sessions where they're falling like flies. Cries of bottoms-up drown out the sounds of another poor soul throwing up as the drinking becomes a serious rite that all comes down to finding out who will be left standing... or sipping. Soon, the spew settles down and just two are left. The contest is over. Last man standing is a lonely and stupid game anyway. The two newly bonded brothers lean back to enjoy their next drink... Cheers!

Second Strike - Bro Against the World 

There are decisions and there are decisions. Every once in a while, you come across one that will alienate everyone else. Parents will disown you, friends will shake their heads disapprovingly, and even the chai wallah will wonder what's wrong with you. Your bro though will stand by you. There will be only one question asked--Are you happy? That is all that matters. We'll figure this out.

Third Strike (this isn't baseball, nobody is out!) - Relationships 

The bro has a girlfriend, or a wife. What does this mean to the brotherhood? How do things change? Do things get weird? Does the wife approve or at least understand? What happens when the other bro gets a girl too? What are the odds of two women who didn't pick each other getting along? These are tough questions, and they need to be answered and figured out. Too many brotherhoods have been disbanded to this deadly third strike. (Ha! Gotcha! Third strike after all!) This round though goes to the lovely women who accompany us bros; for understanding us, for respecting our bros, and for getting along with each other. We couldn't stay bros without you.

Fourth Strike - Success and Failure

The true test of brotherhood lies in this ultimate strike. One bro struggles to find his feet while the other soars. The closely bonded relationship has two conflicting aspects murkying the waters. There is frustration and men being men have egos. But this is the beauty of brotherhood. All it takes is another cricket match with some six packs in the fridge and the joy of an undisturbed evening to scream and shout with an entire country cheering and bursting firecrackers in the background. Actually, the six packs alone will do too!

Fifth and Final Strike - Distance 

Bros will grow up and move away. Family, work, and life will take them to distant shores. Keeping in touch on a regular basis is not a bro thing. Time goes by and responsibilities weigh the ever-youthful shoulders of the bros as they lose their carefree joie-de-vivre sans each other. Grey hair or no hair strike too and the slouch and the paunch weigh the posture down. Capacity for alcohol and late nights goes down and laughter becomes hesitant and confined to socially acceptable volumes. Till one fine day when the bros reunite. Time is confused and doesn't know whether to rewind or fly past as they get right down to the business of being bros. Nothing has changed and the boys will indeed always be boys.

Let's drink to that one... Cheers!



Monday, October 15, 2012

Back and Forth


Is it beginning or has it ended
You’re hurt and aren’t yet mended
You might have let go
You don’t want to know
Looks like your life’s been upended

With flipping tummies and vertigo
Gravity does push, pull, and throw
You plunge and rise
With misery and delight
Life’s scary if your phobia’s an acro

Your winter’s full of your cries
Still not over summer’s surprise
Gets better from here
Nothing more left to fear
Truth’s worse than the worst of lies

Lots more to come, my dear
Laugh insanely or shed a tear
It doesn’t matter
Former or latter
It’s scarier when the end isn’t near

Is it beginning or has it ended

Thursday, May 31, 2012

The Tale of Everend


Her eyes grew large as he said the words she was waiting to hear; once upon a time…

She knew what was to come. She had heard this one a million times. Each time, the story was the same, and yet so different. She had so many memories, and she didn’t know how Papa did it; her favourite parts never changed; and still, there was so much new detail in every retelling. Papa had a way with words, and his stories had so much more life that her little crayon men had ever had. Each time the story started, she held her breath, letting it out in little gasps that punctuated the many wondrous events in Everend.

It was a beautiful place, was Everend! She liked it better than all the other places he made up or borrowed, including Peter Pan’s Neverland. She got Peter; he didn’t grow up, neither had she. But then, she couldn’t imagine running away from home to play Injuns and Pirates for eternity. And it wasn’t that she wasn’t bloodthirsty enough! With a wooden sword in her hands, she had made the boys scream like little girls! But running away from Papa had never crossed her mind! 

And yes, Everend was the best!

Oh, but Sir Dunnohoo was in trouble! His horse had the runs, and a runny horse doth not gallop!

She burst out into peals of laughter! That line always got her, especially the way Papa said it. A runny horse doth not gallop! Sir Dunnohoo was a scream, and she loved the way he blustered through the advantage. The real hero was of course the heroine! Everend was her kind of place, where the heroine was always the hero, and the knights were in distress because of their runny horses!

For a while, she rested into that soft glow that came so often with these precious moments. She could see the animated expressions on Papa’s face, his eyes widening in horror as he described the troubled knight’s climb up 542 stairs. Papa didn’t like stairs, and while she gladly skipped over them, she made a moue of dismay at Sir Dunnohoo’s plight. Papa then flailed his arms around, describing the knight’s exhausted triumph at the top of the stairs, and his confusion on seeing the princess he had come to rescue skip past him! Ah, the princess! She sat up, riveted, waiting for the delightful narrative of her favourite character!

Princess Li’lness, the only heroine to ever have an apostrophe in her name (she remembered the day she found out what an apostrophe was in grammar class; how much she had laughed, much to her teacher’s disapproval); Li’lness was the perfect princess. She wore pink, and kicked bad men on their shins with her dainty, pointy shoes. Her best friend was an ogre… oh, Papa was coming to the place were Sir Dunnohoo would hang his helmet on the ogre’s nose!

Sir Dunnohoo saw the pretty princess looking at him, and decided to turn on all his charm.

Papa stopped here, as he usually did, to smooth his hair down and lick his thumbs before shaping up his eyebrows. She went eww, which of course sent him into another round of spit and polish! She playfully punched his arm, which finally got him to continue with his narrative.

He yanked off his helmet, taking care not to let the chin strap mess up the moment, and in a carefree manner, tossed it onto the nearest hooked object… Ohgoaaargh’s nose! (Ohgoaaargh’s dad saw him and started with ‘oh god’, which halfway turned to aaargh; yes, that’s him in that photo with the bitten-off nose!)

Her eyes widened, her hand stifling her giggles as Papa hammed his way through the utter chaos that followed, his hands becoming ogre claws and his voice becoming that of a strangled squeaky knight. Oh, this was the best part ever!

But soon, things got more serious. It was not all laughter and games in Everend, and this is where Papa got inventive. Depending on what he had been reading and what was on his mind, Everend faced a slew of inventive hazards. Today, the evil witch was going to choke on a poisoned orangeberry (a little orange with freckles and lots of personality!) To make matters worse, the worker gnomes were going on strike because someone gifted them a mirror—now, why would someone do that—and they didn’t like their own faces! Everend’s economy was collapsing, and soon would come a time when Everend would be sold to Walt Disney who would just turn it into another theme park! There were so many to save (the evil witch had to be saved too; after all, she was essential for fairy tales and shouldn’t be bumped off!) and it was up to the brave princess to do it all!

She gasped, sighed, and laughed her way through the princess’s brave antics (her favourite part was the orangeberry ending up in Walt Disney’s potpourri and causing a sneeze-a-thon, especially amongst all the grown men in cartoon character suits who worked for Walt Disney!) At last, the story came to a satisfying ending, with Princess Li’lness putting Sir Dunnohoo to sleep and going into the hall to join her Papa for a post-dinner drink.

She clapped heartily, and got up to hug her Papa. She hadn’t heard the story in years, and today, she had begged Papa to do it, with bell and whistles, for her son. Barely a year old, her son listened with rapt attention for all of two minutes, before nodding off. But Papa had gone on, for his little daughter. As she hugged his frail frame, she wondered if she would ever get to hear about Everend again. After Papa was gone, what would happen to Princess Li’lness and Sir Dunnohoo. She held on, squeezing him tighter as she teared up. She could see Everend’s biggest enemy coming closer with every year, and there was nothing she could do. As her Papa held her, she could sense him smile, comforting her as only her Papa could. He patted her head gently as his mellow voice sang out the little rhyme he had always hummed to her as she fell asleep… 

Everend, oh Everend
Sleep tight, you’re safe tonight
All’s well, and everything’s right
I can’t help but wonder
Everend, will you ever end…